Your First Visit to a Brothel: A Beginner’s Guide

This blog is for anyone who's thinking about visiting a brothel for the first time. First of all, let me just say: Go for it! Visiting a brothel is an experience I recommend every man try at least once in his life. I honestly believe it’ll stick in your memory just like your first love or your first time having sex.

For some guys, one visit is enough. Others drop by every now and then. And then there are the real pros who go multiple times a week. How often you decide to go depends mostly on what you’re looking for - and, of course, on your financial situation. I know guys who used to go 2–3 times a month, but after the post-COVID inflation hit hard, they can only afford once a month now. A brothel visit isn’t cheap fun, so make it count!

Let’s dive into the essential info you need to know before your first visit.

Choosing the Right Girl

Not everything that glitters is gold! Don’t just go by the photos - trust me, they can be very misleading. Check what kind of experience the girl has, if people have written about her anywhere, and whether she has good reviews. For your first brothel visit, I recommend going with a woman in her mid-age range who offers a GFE (Girlfriend Experience) vibe. There’s plenty of time later for young, distant 18-year-olds. As a beginner, you won’t really enjoy yourself with a girl who’s cold and inexperienced.

Also, keep an eye on the price. Don’t blow your whole budget on a high-end girl for your first time. Aim for an hourly rate between €80 and €120. You can make a smart choice using the filters on marhulky.sk.

How to choose? Look for: a woman aged 25–45, experienced, offers GFE, and has a mid-range price.

Booking Your Appointment

Deep breath in, deep breath out - and make the call! I get it, not everyone likes talking on the phone, but in the brothel world, it’s often the only way (sometimes SMS or WhatsApp is possible, but not always). Just grit your teeth, plan what you’re going to say, and go for it. If you stutter or panic - no big deal. It’s not the last brothel on Earth. You can always try again.

It’s best to call on the same day you plan to visit. Booking several days in advance is possible, but the girl might cancel, which happens more often than you’d expect.

Call from a different SIM card than your usual one. You can buy a prepaid SIM at the post office or a store and use that to call the brothel. This is especially important if your regular number is publicly listed somewhere - like at work. In this business, privacy and discretion are absolutely essential.

When picking a time, aim for a day when you’re free in the morning. The last thing you want is to spend your entire workday obsessing over the fact that you’re about to have sex with a prostitute at 5 PM.

When you finally make the call, don’t be surprised if an operator picks up instead of the girl herself. It might catch you off guard, but stay cool and stick to your plan. Make sure to ask about the price and confirm how long the session is (always ask for 60 minutes). Sometimes you’ll get to speak directly with the girl, and that usually makes for a friendlier conversation. Try to create a good vibe even over the phone. If you feel nervous, just speak slowly and clearly. No worries - you’ve got this!

It’s a good idea to mention right away that you want a full hour. Half an hour might not be enough for a first-timer and is better suited to guys who already know how things work. An hour gives you time to get to know the girl and get comfortable. Keep in mind - if you’re nervous, your erection might not be at 100%.

If you book in advance, it’s polite to confirm your appointment shortly before the scheduled time with a quick text. Something simple like, “Confirming my visit with Miss XXX at 11:00 for one hour. Thank you.” It’s a good habit, even if no one asks you to. Otherwise, you might show up and find your time slot was given away.

How to book? Call (not from your regular number), schedule in the morning, ask for 60 minutes.

Getting Ready for Your Brothel Visit

First things first- check in with yourself. If you’re feeling tired, sick, or super stressed out, it’s better to postpone the visit. But don’t turn into a hypochondriac or start making excuses. You promised yourself this, so go for it!

Prepare for a brothel visit just like you would for a date. Dress nicely, trim your nails, and shower thoroughly (yes, that includes your butt and your penis). If you have favorite condoms, bring them along. If not, they’ll provide one for you. A bit of deodorant and a few sprays of cologne - and you’re good to go. These ladies are professionals, but if you show up smelling bad and looking like you just rolled out of a dumpster, don’t expect a stellar experience. And obviously - go to the bathroom before your visit. Empty yourself out so nothing ruins the mood later.

Put the brothel address into your GPS. Use Street View to check the location in advance so you know exactly where you’re going. Also look into parking options nearby. If you’re planning to visit a girl in Bratislava, you might want to consider taking a taxi instead -parking can be a real pain.

Only bring as much cash as you need. I’m not saying anyone’s going to rob you, but in the heat of the moment, a clever girl might tempt you into buying expensive extras. No need to spend €150 when you planned to spend €100.

For a first-timer, you probably don’t need any special services like facial finishes or deep throat extras - those usually come at a high price and aren’t necessary now. Also, leave your credit cards, ID, and fancy watch at home. You don’t want to lose anything in a stranger’s apartment. And let’s be honest- you probably don’t want the girl to know exactly who you are, so best if she doesn’t see your last name anywhere.

How to get ready? Feel healthy, prepare like it’s a date, and bring only the cash you need.

When You Arrive at the Location

First and foremost - be on time. The last thing you want is to stress yourself out by being late. I recommend arriving 5 to 10 minutes early so you’re not rushing, but also not sitting around too long getting anxious. If you are going to be late, send a quick text to apologize. If you don’t, there’s a chance the girl won’t be willing to see you again.

Now comes the awkward part - calling her to say you’ve arrived (only call when you’re actually at the location). It’s pretty likely she’ll make you wait a few more minutes - maybe she just finished with another client or still needs to freshen up. At this point, it’s super important to ask if she’s available for the full hour. If not, politely cancel and reschedule. You agreed on an hour - don’t settle for less, especially on your first visit.

If everything’s good and she says you can come up, double-check (honestly, triple-check) that you’re at the right door. In a private house, that’s pretty simple. In an apartment building, it can be trickier. Whatever you do, don’t knock or ring any doorbells. She’s expecting you and will open the door the moment you arrive. The last thing you want is to draw attention and have to explain to some random neighbor what you’re doing there. Trust me - you don’t want that.

How to act when you arrive? Show up 5 - 10 minutes early, call her once you’re there, and double-check the entrance.

When She Opens the Door

This moment is super important - it often determines whether the whole visit will be a pleasant one. You're standing at the door, and the woman is inviting you into her place. Here's what to do:

Greet her, introduce yourself, and offer a handshake (or a kiss on the cheek, depending on the vibe).

Then ask yourself:

Do I find her attractive? Do I really want to have sex with this woman?

Does she seem friendly? Is she in a good mood?

If your answer to either of those is "no," then it might be time for what we call "the turnaround."

Now, let’s be real - most guys don’t have the guts to walk away during their first brothel visit. It takes serious courage to look a woman in the eye and say, “Sorry, I’m not staying.” But it’s totally okay to chat with her for a minute and make your decision before taking your shoes off.

If you decide to leave, say something like, “Sorry, you’re not quite what I had in mind.” And just leave. Try again next time. There’s no point spending your time - and money - on someone you’re not comfortable with.

What to do when the door opens? Say hello, ask yourself if you’re into her, and either move forward or politely walk away.

Getting on the Same Page with the Lady

Congrats - you’ve made it through the hardest part. Now it’s time to relax and have a friendly chat with the lady. Ideally, sit down somewhere and exchange a few words. If she’s warm and professional, she’ll usually help even shy guys loosen up. I remember my first nervous visit - she was so nice that I instantly felt at ease.

First, ask her if she’s available for the full hour. If not, politely excuse yourself and leave. You agreed on an hour, so stick to that. Half an hour is usually not enough for a first visit.

At this point, the lady will typically ask what you're into and start listing her extra services. Unless you came with a specific fantasy in mind, just say no. As mentioned earlier, you don’t want to walk out €100 poorer than planned. If anything, maybe consider a blowjob without a condom - that usually costs around €20–€40. Kissing and wild extras like facials really aren’t necessary on your first go.

Once you’ve talked and agreed on the service, she’ll show you where the shower is. Take all your belongings with you - just in case. In the bathroom, wash yourself thoroughly and use shampoo. If there’s mouthwash and a clean cup, go ahead and use that too. I can’t stress this enough: if you smell good and seem clean, you’ll absolutely get better service.

After your shower, head to the room and lie down on the bed. The fun is about to begin!

How to agree with a sex worker?

Have a relaxed conversation, skip the pricey extras, and take a proper shower.

Your First Time with a Sex Worker

This part is hard to give exact advice on - everyone’s different, everyone likes different things, and we’re all used to different experiences in bed.

What I really love about brothel visits is the open communication. You don’t get that during your first time with a “regular” partner - both sides are usually shy. But at a brothel, it’s different. You’re paying for a service, so ask for what you like. Don’t be embarrassed. Worst case? She says no - and that’s it.

Take your time. Talk for a bit to shake off the nerves. That’s exactly why you booked 60 minutes. You don’t need to tell her it’s your first time - she’ll probably notice anyway, but she won’t make a big deal out of it. I suggest asking for a short massage and letting her know you need to relax. That’s what I did on my first visit, and it worked like a charm. I was lying on my stomach, she gave me a nice massage, we chatted a bit... Then she asked me to turn over. Not gonna lie - I was super anxious about whether I’d get hard. But there was no need to worry. She was a total pro, and I had a rock-solid erection in seconds.

If you’re not sure about your erection and want to avoid any awkward moments, try Kamagra - it’s a type of over-the-counter Viagra that usually has no side effects.

And now - just enjoy it. Enjoy the blowjob, the sex - missionary, doggy, cowgirl... If you want her to moan or scream, just ask. If you want to spank her or lightly pull her hair, ask. Just be ready for her to say no - and if she does, respect it.

Most importantly: don’t act like a jerk. Treat her like a human being. She might reward you with kisses, oral without a condom, cuddles after sex - or you might even get the full GFE (Girlfriend Experience) treatment.

If you’re a virgin, good luck - I can’t give you perfect advice. Everyone experiences their first time differently. But I’ve never heard of a guy who lost his virginity and didn’t want to do it again. Honestly, I wouldn’t stop my younger self from doing it at a brothel. It’s likely to be way better with a pro than with some nervous teenager (and yeah, I hope you’re a teenage virgin if that’s the case).

First time with a sex worker? Relax, be respectful, and ask for what you like.

After Sex with a Sex Worker

You did it! You’re officially a champ. Now take a calm, relaxed shower and get dressed. Make sure you double-check your stuff - because trust me, you really don’t want to have to call the brothel saying you forgot something.

Let’s talk about the shower and your scent for a second. If you have a wife or girlfriend at home, be extra careful. Don’t use the brothel’s shampoo - just wash thoroughly and spray on your usual cologne. Pay special attention to your penis and your mouth - any lingering scent could land you in hot water. If you’re wearing a coat or clothes that easily catch hair, check them too. You don’t want your short-haired brunette girlfriend finding a long blonde hair on your jacket.

When you leave, depending on how the vibe was, you’ll either get a kiss or a handshake from the lady. If you enjoyed the experience, you can ask for her personal number (if you don’t already have it), so next time you can book directly.

Most importantly: don’t fall in love with the sex worker. Sure, she might be stuck in your head for a few days - but remember, this is her job. She’s doing it for the money. That’s where it ends.

Once you’re back home, take another shower using your own shampoo, check everything one last time - and you’re all good.

And next time, don’t forget to pick your girl on Marhulky.sk.

Good luck!